Amber Rosolero

It's a bit awkward, though, isn't it?

But you need to kind of like if there's boundaries and stuff like that, you have to kind of set parameters like, oh, check in with me or you can.

Oh, I don't know.

Oh, it's so tricky because I can see it from both sides.

I think he could probably make an excuse for this time and then just on the basis that you guys have a conversation to try and work out how it's going to work going forward because you can't say no to it all the time.

I would try and get out of it for the first time, but then try and revisit the conversation.

Exactly what I'm saying.

Try and revisit the conversation.

So it's not going to prevent me from progressing in my career.

It's not going to do it.

Yeah, okay.

It is though, it is.

Because you have to be seen as a team player and involved and hungry.

And saying no once, if you come up with a valid excuse, fair enough.

But you can't continue to say no because then you are ruining yourself out of any career progression.

That's the sensible Sally answer there.

But you do need to have a bigger conversation.

Try and get out of it this time.

But you do need to have a bigger conversation where you're both happy kind of with the end result and you're aligned.

It's going.