Andy Stumpf

You need to be in that environment and you need to make sure that they understand that they're not going to be alone.

I would also...

Expect this to come in waves.

Actually, more like maybe not waves because it doesn't have to crash.

We'll say the tide.

You'll have good days and you'll have bad days.

Your ex-wife, future ex-wife, she's going to have good days and bad days.

You're going to have and your kids might as well too.

There might be days where it seems like they're not being really impacted by this much.

And there may be other days where behavior is so outside of normal that you don't understand what's going on.

Maybe just think in the back of your head.

man, this might be the expression of whatever it is they're going through, trying to work through.

My point in saying that is as adults, we have better abilities to communicate and you can go out and find help for yourself.

Make sure you think of that for your kids.

And again, this depends.

I have no idea if they're infants, single digit age, tweens, teenagers, twenties, whatever it may be, but you said they were young.

So again,

There are people that specialize in helping young children, boys and girls, work through things like this.

So reach out wide.

Reach out proactively.