Andy Stumpf

And maybe they did because, you know, I mean, I guess you could look at their electronic device or maybe it was a face-to-face.

It's hard to say.

But the difference in what Dave left behind, he left behind some journals.

And I think that there are pros and cons.

If you are in a place where you have the opportunity to read somebody what they have left behind and not, you may not want to know.

It may make it more difficult because I've also seen people attach a very immense amount of grief because they either think that what was written and left behind was specifically about them or they, oh man, I was there and I could have, could have, would have, should have, which is all hypothetical and doesn't change the fact that it already happened.

But I've seen people deeply, deeply struggle with that

So that would be the negative.

The pro could be perhaps, I don't know, closure.

So it really depends on the person.

Choose wisely as somebody who has experienced that.

My experience is it was a combination of both.

I felt a deeper level of understanding, but also a deep sense I wish I would have done more.

The internal struggles and self-talk and monologue

I couldn't read it without crying.

And I don't think he realized how highly other people thought of him.

The gap between the two is just unbelievable.

He and not everybody is.

He was isolated at the time.

There was alcohol involved, to the best of my knowledge.