Anita Shimmins
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415 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2026
last heard 10 Jul
Anita Shimmins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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This is a moment to do this little exercise to not react in the moment and give myself a second to re-evaluate.
So step two could then be...
Fact versus story.
So what was said or like your example before your boss said, I want to can we have a chat?
That was the fact.
And the story was I've done something wrong.
Can we can we can we start disentangling that?
Or in my example that I said before, my boss said these these reports need revision.
And I've heard he thinks I'm incompetent.
And then step three, can we come up with two alternatives?
Even if you don't buy into them, just let's just for the sake of it, try and come up with two alternative explanations.
Can you come up with one?
Why would your boss have asked you to come for a talk?
Okay.
That's the worst case.
That's the immediate.
Yep.
It's funny.
And just for the sake of it, can you come up with two alternatives of like how, what else could be a reason?
Yep, totally.
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