Antonio Pascual-Leone
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And he firmly said to me, definitely do not tell that story.
There's sort of a, shall I say, desperate kind of attempt to move on.
I mean, it's a behavioral approach.
It's like, I'm just going to, you know, there's an old saying in Spanish, which is un clavo saca otro clavo, right?
To push out a nail, you just drive in another nail, right?
You know, and that is not something that helps you necessarily figure out what you really need.
So, I mean, you might get over somebody, but but, you know, you haven't learned anything from the relationship.
You haven't changed as a person and you're likely to end up in a similar sort of predicament.
You know, it's also an example of I hate you for not loving me.
So what's really going on here underneath all the hostility?
But the anger is all about it's blaming anger.