Ariana Madix

It's like how much effort should I be putting forth in a relationship?

Should I be stalking my partner in order to know for sure like what they're doing?

Because now I'm being, you know, that person that's just so, like, so what?

Am I their mom now that's going to be, like, every time they come home, am I going to be like, all right, let me see your phone?

You know, like, that whole thing.

Well, and then they get to use that against you later on.

So it's like you're either not...

no oh you're oh and you know why because at one point they were and it was just like we just get so many and it would just be dinging dinging so it was like we gotta turn that turn that off this was years and years ago it was just like the amount that i know but the find my iphone app i you know could see where the devices all were located um

And they were always located somewhere that they should be.

The band rehearsal space.

Or Schwartz's apartment.

How much of the affair do you think happened at Schwartz's house?

I think more than Schwartz is willing to let on.

Because the recording was at Schwartz's.

And he apparently felt real comfortable there.

Yeah.

In that sad, sad apartment.

because I didn't want people I always saw a side of him that I felt like wasn't apparent on the show or on social media or whatever.

I always felt like I saw a side of him that was like the home side.

and so i always felt like if people could just see that part of him they would like they would get it you know and then in turn yeah i mean for people to think less of me i mean i don't i don't want them to be like oh this girl sucks at picking guys a date yeah although i mean no