Aubrey O'Day
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1,063 appearances
30 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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Yes, stronger than drugs. I wish it could have been easier than drugs. It's stronger than drugs to get over. If you watch Intervention, now put that times 5 billion, that's what somebody who is in an abusive, toxic cycle times 5 billion is trying to recover from. It's so difficult. I remember even I did everything. And I mean, I would separate. I would get with people. I would get into therapy.
I luckily have a best friend who's a therapist who would connect me back in. And I sat with a therapist in L.A. that was like, you know, off insurance, five hundred and fifty bucks an hour. She's a therapist to all the celebrities and she would have known exactly what it was. I found myself with therapists a lot of times that didn't that I could see looking at the clock.
Or that I could see didn't truly have it. They would go like, wow, really? They couldn't understand just what I went through with Diddy because I was talking in such extremes. I could see their level of shock. And I realized like, oh, I can't even take them past this point. They're not going to be able to understand it.
And then I noticed when I went to this woman that I spent all of this money and she would give me these gems and I would leave and I would feel confident on my drive home from Malibu the whole time I knew it. But by the time six or seven or eight rolled around and my...
Abandonment sunk in and my loneliness and because being in this industry and being a celebrity is super isolating in general, I start to want that feeling of what I thought it was is my best friend back. My happiest, highest self was when we were connected. It was the most... It felt like somebody loved me for real, not like a fan's telling me, I love you all over the place.
That never resonated as real to me. So I remember running right back to him. And I remember getting in the car out of the airport and him laughing and saying to me, look at my brand new watch, babe. It costs this much money, babe. Look at, babe, I have a new Rolex, babe. You spent all that money on therapy and I got a new watch, babe. But you're still here with me, babe, huh, babe?
Good choice, babe. And I remember thinking to myself, It's true. I have spent as much money as that watch is trying to get over this person. And at the end of the day, a therapist cannot, they can guide you to the water, but you have to drink, which is why I ended up going to Bali and getting out and trying other, other sources to check in with myself.
Mostly the disconnection was the important part, but I had to get out of it somehow. And therapy was just not working enough because it They can only tell you as much as they can tell you, but you have to want the change and you have to be able to make the change. When you leave there, you can feel so empowered in the sessions.
But I found and that's for anybody that maybe is in therapy, feeling that power and then leaving and going right back. I found myself doing that for years.
And that's huge with Cassie, keep going.
The aftermath is a big one that we don't talk about enough. The aftermath, you know, you can't get those highs anymore. So you're dependent on you got to find something for the high or you got to be ripe and ready for change. And change is not an easy thing to just snap your fingers and go to. As you get older, you learn that you have more control over your brain than you think.
But when you're younger and you're still learning, I would look around anywhere and everywhere for it. And unfortunately, specifically in Cassie's case, there were so many things that that There were so many addictions around her that she had many things to overcome.
It seems like everybody had to find ways outside of Puff to move into places to move into that would provide their sense of self anymore. Sense of self meaning you can wake up and feel joy and happiness just within yourself.
For anyone that didn't understand what she had to say in regards to being in fear of him or they didn't believe it, you can believe it after Kid Cudi's testimony. Those are two different people and the result of both the two different statuses, two different relationships with the man. And yet the common denominator in all of it is force, violence, extreme violence.
And people not even coming forward and wanting to tell on the person or create a proper trail amongst the public of the events and the behaviors out of fear of retaliation. So it existed on all levels with him. Now, I want to take you through before we finish the cross-examination so we could kind of go over.
The way that the defense team is kind of using a multi-pronged strategy in regards to, obviously, the denial of the allegations. They've categorically denied them. We're learning, I don't know, not so true. They are attacking her credibility. We've seen that on the stand. We've seen that with multiple people.
witnesses, financial motivations, career opportunities, inconsistencies in testimony, continuing to seek the relationship with Puff after you've already gone over why all of those would occur. Specifically, a lot of people have issues... With Don Hughes, what are your thoughts on that?
She kind of got beaten up during the Amber Johnny trial that left all of us sitting on the edge of our seats because there was such an admiration for Johnny Depp. Anyone that was explaining her behavior that they, you know, some people felt was. didn't come off as sincere.
Um, Don Hughes took a lot of heat when trying to explain that they have made the criticism specifically in this case that she did not interview Cassie. She did not interview Diddy. She has not sat down with anyone involved in this and she does not know their personal records, uh, health records, mental health records.
Is there some kind of, is there something to say for that defense for that specific defense?
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