Big Sean
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488 appearances
3 recordings
2 series
first heard Jan 2025
last heard Jun 2025
Big Sean’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yeah, and that's what we're here to do, is to serve, really, in every aspect. This always comes down to being of service. And anything we put out there, in any interview, in any book, in any song, is really of service to whatever the moment it relates to. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, you're right, saying the right thing to the wrong. And the thing is, you're kind of the only one who can dictate
You know, right and wrong is so opinionated depending on who you talk to.
You know, there are a lot of people who think that, you know, anything that we could think is wrong, somebody could argue how it's right. You know, even down to black and white, somebody can argue that this text that says the exact same thing means this thing or this means that thing. You know, so I think it's important to come from a place of understanding.
And this leads to something else I want to talk about, because just because you understand something doesn't mean you have to accept it. Just because you understand it. And that's something that I had to learn the hard way. I thought that I was being this spiritual guy by if I get into a disagreement with someone, understanding where they come from.
And then ultimately turns to me not respecting myself because I'll understand where they're coming from and be like, okay, I get it. But the fact that I still get it, it doesn't mean that I can't express myself and I'm not valid. So I want to make sure that everyone knows that because I think that that was something that I learned is to set boundaries. And that's like that big B word.
That's like the biggest B word there is as boundaries that I've learned this year. And like that has really, really, really changed a lot of dynamics with people. And it changed a lot of, it's really created a lot of happiness in my life.
I think I was trying to be a hero in every situation I was in. I'm such an empathetic person, so I love to... I really can feel when people are going through something. Even when the world is going through something, it's like I kind of really have to really protect myself energetically because I take on a lot of people's problems. You know what I'm saying? I can't help it.
And it's not a good... I don't look at it as a bad thing. I just look at it as how I am. Do I wish sometimes that I could just cut things off? Yeah, but it taught me that I can. I just have to set boundaries on what I can and can't accept. And this year... Yeah, there are a lot of things that I was tired of feeling uncomfortable in certain situations.
I was tired of letting people walk all over me. And just because I understood or I get it, I'm not respecting myself. And I didn't realize that I wasn't respecting myself in that. You know, there are times where, yeah, I need to... I can't go to this thing. I can't do this. Or, you know what? I can't go here. I can't go... To Dubai and do this show because I have to be here for my son.
I got to take my son trick or treating. You know, I had to set some of those boundaries that may have cost me one thing, but I gained another. And one of the most important things I gained back from setting boundaries is the trust in myself. You know, the confidence that I feel like I have been building up for so long.
The fear of losing a person.
I mean, there was no energy income coming in. And you were just a piece of you. You were just a part of you at that point.
And how to enjoy it. And you got to enjoy your life too. Totally.
Yeah, that's right.
We do it for ourselves.
And I'm like, well, no, you keep breaking your boundaries. Exactly. Right? No, yes. It's, you know, it's like... The boundaries, forgiveness, they're not just there for you. Forgiveness is for you as well. And boundaries are for you as well. Yeah, it's been tough. I think that I grew up letting people walk all over me.
I think I grew up by letting people take advantage of me straight up, just to be real. And I saw that in my parents, especially my dad, he would let people take advantage of him. He was a very nice guy. And there's nothing, like I said, right or wrong. It's an opinion. It's just a perspective. So I'm not criticizing him or saying he was wrong in any way.
It's just the kind-spirited, hearted person he is. But along with that, you do have to set your boundaries and respect who you are because you will lose a sense of yourself by trying to take care of everyone else. You will lose a sense of yourself if you don't set these boundaries.
You will lose a sense of yourself if you don't take the time out to keep connecting with yourself, even if it's something you love. I lost the passion of watching anime. I remember while I was working so hard, It's like I hadn't sat and watched anime. I love watching anime. I love Dragon Ball Z. I love, like, My Hero Academia and Demon Slayer and Evangelions and all these things.
And that's just one thing that I love, right? So it's like I have to take time out to do that because it is really important to me.
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