Blaise Aguirre

And this is what's interesting.

Let's just say that somebody was drunk and they walked into the studio.

Yeah.

And we all walk in independently, that we could see that the person is drunk.

You know, that state is permanent in that moment.

But let's just say it's somebody with borderline personality disorder and you guys have a good relationship with that person.

but I've really pissed them off.

So then you come and you're chit-chatting and everything.

And I walk in and suddenly you see this spike of rage.

From your perspective, that person seems to be doing fine.

But from my perspective, all of a sudden this person's angry and maybe they're devaluing me or very, very upset.

And you guys are saying like, wait, what's going on?

So, so

That state only manifests when there's something either interpersonal or intrapersonal inside their own head.

Right.

That gets triggered.

It's interesting that I don't know narcissism as well.

And the reason why is because people with narcissism don't tend to come in for therapy.

Maybe I could teach you a thing or two.

What I'm saying is that's what the narcissist will say to you.