Brendan O'Connor
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And then I'd explain what those feelings are.
Because it's so destructive.
I'd sit down again and have the conversation and I'd explain to them.
You might, but you never know because somebody might struggle with that.
That might be something they might really struggle with articulating in their inner world.
And when you have a very clear conversation about saying, what I feel when you disappear from me is this.
What do you feel when you disappear?
Yeah.
And what would you say if your silence could speak?
What would the silence say to me?
Or on look.
And what would it be like if you said that instead of the silence?
And then, and I think this is there in the book as well, of things echoing down.
the generations in the book, you think of it's, you know, boats beating against the tide, really, isn't it?
We are just products too, I think.
I don't know.
I'm a talker.
Are we of our parents and our grandparents?
Let's move on.