Brendon Burchard

And what this means is when we have clarity or aspirational self, the F meant, well, you have a feeling your aspirational self wants to feel.

Start learning to generate that now.

Responsibility is your aspirational future self handles responsibilities a specific way.

Your current self, with your obligation, your responsibilities, you might complain, you might blame, you might get angry, impatient, insecure, beat yourself up.

The way that you handle current responsibilities and obligations is probably not the way your future best self would.

So clarity is going, okay, future best self, aspirational Brendan, how are you going to deal with this argument with your spouse?

How are you going to deal with the insecurity at the event?

How are you going to deal with this?

So again, intention...

is acting from the aspirational self versus just the preference now.

My preference is I'm not even going to open up the bills because guess what?

I know what's in them.

So I'm going to stack the bills over in the corner and I'm going to avoid them.

That's my preference.

A lot of people's preference in life is avoidance, not assertiveness.

And so they've avoided themselves into deeper holes.

They probably have to shift into an assertive lean into the future and say, how do I want to handle problems?

You know, when my competitor lines up next to me on the block, that's a responsibility.

How do I want to handle that?

When I got to pay the bills, when I got to turn on the camera and I don't feel like it, I mean, I would love to hear how you feel about this.