Brendon Burchard
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first heard May 2025
last heard 11 May
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Just like doubt doesn't go away. Sometimes negative feelings aren't going to go away. I do like the idea that we can think these negative things less. But the reason we think them less isn't because we do a mind warp on ourselves and we go, I'm thinking less of this awful thing I really do feel about myself. It's, you know what? I did some good today. I said I was going to shower and I showered.
I said I was gonna go to the gym and I went to the gym. I said I was gonna call my mom, I called my mom. I said I was gonna write the first page and I wrote the first page. And it's these small acts of integrity that improves our thoughts more than wishing our thoughts were different thoughts and could be better thoughts and could be replaced with thoughts. And so I think alignment
in, now I'm going to come back and reverse myself, in alignment in our thoughts and our behaviors. But sometimes shifting behavior can be a little easier to start cleaning up the thoughts. Yeah. It's being our word to ourself over and over again.
Like I said, there's alignment you have to get to because you have an assignment. And you can't see the assignment. Lewis, I've known him a long time. A decade ago, if we were talking, you wouldn't see this as the assignment yet, right? He had to go through things and discover things and keep, Lewis has become more of his best self.
And I've watched it and I really honor it because I just so you know, I'm not geeking on. I just told him this in the green room today. It's been awesome to watch as a friend. Thanks brother. What you have become. Appreciate it. Thank you. He aligned himself. And I want to let you show, I know he shares on the podcast, but sometimes it's different when someone says it.
He aligned himself by getting counseling and therapy and help and going to seminars and listening to the people he interviews. He actually is present and he listens to them. And because he realigned himself in the universe, God assigned him Martha.
Thank God. And now he has the abundance of love. You see that happen? He aligned, then he was assigned.
I'll break it down psychologically.
On that coaching, this is important. And he said it. He didn't need and he didn't try to control. And he didn't try to get. It's weird because I mean, we're at this money conversation tonight, but think about how often we need, we try to control and we try to get, and that's, that's our mode of operation that we've learned with money and relationships.
And it's why we have this terrible route of poor performance in those, in our culture. Because if it's need all the time, I mean, you can't be fulfilled. It's like the oldest metaphor I used to teach college kids back in the day. It's like, oh, if you have a relationship of two incomplete and broken people, they can't really ever quite connect.
And that's why each person has to really work on their wholeness, because then you lock in. But if you're needy, you're always trying to grab somebody's parts. You're trying to grab. And then at some point, that doesn't feel good, so they pull away. The harder you grab at them to fill your incompleteness, the more they want to pull that part back of themselves. So neediness is never working.
Control never works, which we all know, but we still try to do it on people. And then you're trying to get, and you're like, hey, actually, I'm not trying to get any from you, Marta. It's like, oh, okay. That's a powerful reframe. And so I think what you shared is so powerful because it's about relationships and money. But alignment, I want to really hammer that home.
It's like achievement is not your problem. Alignment is. So many people are busy. They have busy work, but it's not their life's work. And until they move in more of the direction of the path of what is truly aligned, why is it that every spiritual text and everything we know from ancient traditions, why is it always this? Why is there always a centering?
Because it's ancient, we know it as human beings, right? When we're out of alignment, That's where our ego grows. And we're in pain. We're in separation. We're in pain. So it's just about ever so more for you. And I don't know what the answer is. And Lewis doesn't know what the answer is. But you have a path. And you have a way of being. And you have a nature.
You got to have those daily acts of courage to scoot yourself towards that because then you have that self-respect at the end of the day and go, I scoot myself a little bit. A few more days of doing those actions that are good for you in alignment with you, it's just a game changer.
As weird as it sounds, most of the wealthy people I work with, which I never imagined I would, I imagine all my clients are wealthier than I am, all of them, so why do they need me?
Don't tell him.
Well, first is I would say they've mastered achievement, but they don't feel it yet. It's talking to everybody in this room who you've had success already and you still don't feel like a success because we don't teach people how to integrate success.
So you might have a lot of wins, a lot of victories, but if you never taught yourself how to debrief it, think about it, internalize it, and connect that to your identity and your character, a lot of people, what's blocking is they're still striving to feel what they already achieved. They're still trying so hard to feel good or adequate or worthy. They've done it. The track record shows it.
Because our society is not good at celebrating success. Look at how we demonize all the top earners. Look how we demonize the top people in government, culture, records. The bigger you get, the more that criticism comes out for no reason. You know, it just comes out. And so you're like, oh, do I want that? So they're scared. They're scared.
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