Cam Fraser

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The Hook Up · What is death grip syndrome? And do I have it? · 30 Aug 2022 podcast

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This is actually the most understudied and misunderstood area of male sexuality and sexual dysfunction.

We don't really know too much about it, and the research that we have done on it is very varied, and there's a bunch of different reasons for this.

What we might call an idiosyncratic masturbation pattern.

This is colloquially known as death grip syndrome.

And um, that was a term coined by uh Dan Savage, uh who's a uh sex and relationship blogger and podcaster.

Uh but the

The term death grip syndrome really refers to the way that a guy will masturbate, which is like really firmly gripping his penis and vigorously stimulating it up and down with a lot of friction.

When that is done over and over and over again, right?

This habit or this pattern is built up around uh the way that he conditions himself to experience pleasure, which cannot be emulated by oral sex or intercourse, right?

Penis and vagina sex.

And so because he's so used to

getting off and ejaculating and reaching ejaculation from this particular type of stimulation, that is not

available to him when he's with a partner.

And so therefore he has to use his hands in order to get to the point of of ejaculation.

I speak to a lot of guys about the way that they masturbate and very, very commonly

the experience that they share with me is like sitting in front of the computer screen, hunched over, going through their, you know, favorite tube site, going through the motions, jackhammer up and down, masturbating like a little chimpanzee.

And um I I'd probably hazard a guess and say it's more common than not.

You know, a lot of guys are masturbating whilst watching porn.

So um they could be like

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