Chantelle Otten
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881 appearances
8 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2018
last heard Sep 2021
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I think good sex is really about pleasure.
It's about intention and it's about cooperation and, of course, safe, consensual sex as well.
for the trees.
So I really think that if you're going in and you want to have a good time and you want your partner to have a good time,
We need to move away from this performance-based model, which we traditionally are taught to kind of look towards, where it's really about, like, how hard can you do it?
You know, how quickly can you get it done?
How many times can you orgasm?
You know, how loud are you, et cetera, and really work towards, well, what works for both of us or all of us as a team and what's going to bring the most amount of pleasure?
We want to walk away from that experience going, okay,
That felt amazing, regardless of whether there was penetration or orgasm involved.
No!
How many people can't have orgasms but still have really great, pleasurable sex?
No, I don't think an orgasm...
is the be all end all.
I think if you think about sex like a layered cake in a way, you know, you want to have a few different layers.
They're sweet, they're exciting.
You've got, you know, maybe some icing on top and then the cherry on top might be the orgasm.
You know, it's just that extra bit of sweetness.
But we just want to have a little bit of a, you know, just like a very pleasurable time.
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