Chantelle Otten
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881 appearances
8 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2018
last heard Sep 2021
Chantelle Otten’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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just a huge pro for your relationship because maybe one day you'll be able to make some compromises and work out what's going to satisfy both of you.
And maybe this woman has been taught a few things about sexuality that wasn't part of her BDSM and kink background as well, which is really cool.
I think when it comes to relationships and types of relationships though,
It depends on where you're at in your life too.
Maybe the type that you're going for, you're attracted to, will depend on what you need at that time and what's going to be comfortable for you at that time and what's going to kind of ground you in a way or maybe what's going to push you out of your comfort zone.
I hear a lot of people going, I have a type and I'm sick of it and I keep breaking up with that kind of person and now I'm just going to go for completely the opposite and that also isn't, you know...
I mean, maybe it will broaden your horizons, but I think finding that middle ground and really exploring why you're going for a certain type of person is important and what your values are and what your goals are in your life and your relationship.
Because
Totally.
I think it goes back to that first caller, just making sure that you keep your mind open and explore what options are out there for you.
So maybe the type of person you go for on a physical level may be quite similar to past partners, but on a...
psychological level or personality level they might be quite different i would say keep your mind open to that and really see what you like about them what's going to work for you and i think in the first 10 minutes to one hour you can see what floors are going to be there for a relationship and you can decide whether you're going to maybe ignore them or give them a place or whether you're going to be totally okay with them and can vibe on them and work with the person
on on the relationship together so i think just be really aware of what's going to work for you and if it if you've been going for the same person over and over again what can you do to tweak that a little bit and go for something a little bit more positive or in the right direction that will suit your goals and your uh the way that you want to live your life essentially
are?
No, I mean, we're not grounded and we're not stuck to what we've been going for.
I think it's about really being aware of what you want and what you can work with and what you can't work with.
Maybe it's okay for you to go for someone who looks the same but your first partner had a really shy personality and wasn't a social person and now you're with someone who...
Kind of looks a little bit similar, but might be a bit more outgoing and more social and on the same level as you in many ways.
I think just exploring and taking chances.
Hang on.
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