Charles Duhigg
speaker
203 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 28 Jul
Charles Duhigg’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Rather than waiting for me to ask you, where did you grow up?
You built on what I was saying to say, oh, I actually know LA.
I grew up in LA.
I can share with you things about LA.
We can share this together.
Yeah.
And that means, A, I know that you were listening to me, but B, it means that in addition to sharing who I am, I get to learn something about you, which is that you also like that energy and you like being in Los Angeles, but that much like me and probably most people, the traffic is not ideal.
That you probably value your time more than just being in a place that's exciting.
And so it only took us three questions, but I feel like we know each other.
One of the things that we know about super communicators is that they have a couple of characteristics.
People who are consistently super communicators, they tend to ask 10 to 20 times as many questions as everyone else.
But the questions are kind of throwaway questions.
A lot of them are like, you know, what do you think about that?
What happened next?
So that we don't even hardly register them as questions.
They tend to laugh more because they want to show us that they want to connect.
But most importantly, they are authentic communicators.
If you say something that indicates that you're struggling with something, they authentically listen to you and they might share something about themselves or they might ask you a question about that, but they don't try and force something that's false.
They don't try and imply that they're curious, but the reason that they're asking what happened is because they really want to talk about what happened to them.
And so the more that we can be authentic with each other, the more that we can listen to what we're feeling and thinking, the more paradoxically we get better at listening and in speaking in ways that other people want to listen to us.
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