Charles Duhigg
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203 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 28 Jul
Charles Duhigg’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It's easy to ask deep questions, easier than we think it is.
But more importantly, we learn what this other person is seeking out of this conversation and we get to share with them what we want as well.
Yes, absolutely.
So if someone shares something with us that's a little bit vulnerable, we should acknowledge that we've heard that.
We ask, how was this weekend?
And they say, oh, it was a little bit of a tough weekend.
And we ask, why?
What happened?
What was going on?
And they say, well, I had to go to a funeral.
At that moment, what we should do is rather than
Yeah.
Is, is lean in a little bit and say, Oh, I'm so sorry.
Like, tell me about the person.
What did they mean to you?
And then we can share about ourselves and we can say, you know, my father, and this is actually true.
My father passed away six years ago.
And, and one of the things that's been really fascinating to me is how much my relationship with him has continued after his death.
Now we're 45 seconds, a minute into a conversation, and we're talking about something real, something where we can get to know each other and understand each other a little bit better.
And that emotional reciprocity is at the core of how we learn to trust and like each other.
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