Charles Duhigg
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1,650 appearances
6 recordings
6 series
first heard Jan 2026
last heard 1 Jul
Charles Duhigg’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yeah.
I think almost everyone listening probably has a person like that.
And that person for you is a super communicator.
That's someone who knows how to not only listen to you, but make you feel listened to.
They know how to speak in a way that you want to hear what they have to say.
And what we know is that there are some people who actually can do this much more consistently, who can basically connect with anyone.
They are that person for lots and lots of different people.
And
It's not because they're born with any special skills.
In fact, we know that communication is just a set of skills that any of us can learn.
And it's not that they're more charismatic or more of an extrovert.
It's that literally they've just thought a little bit more about how to communicate.
And that thinking puts us in a place where we can connect with other people much, much better.
Well, there's a couple of things that he probably did, which I'll ask you about, and you can tell me if this lines up with your experiences with him.
And they are things that any of us can learn to do.
My guess is that one of the things that he did is that he made you feel like he was listening really closely, like he was hearing what you were having to say.
Is that right?
And probably the way he was doing that was through some variation of what's known as looping for understanding.
And looping for understanding is actually this technique that they teach people when they become negotiators or when they become conflict mediators.
And it just has these three steps, but we can use it in any conversation.
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