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Charles Schwartz

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
4665 total appearances

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Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

And all of a sudden, I've changed the power struggle here. I'm putting them in a place of power. I'm showing them with votability, which is an illusion. And absolute votability is complete strength. You understand? But I'm like, I think I got it all. I swear I'm missing something. Help me out here. What am I missing? All of a sudden, we're automatically working on a problem together.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

And all of a sudden, I've changed the power struggle here. I'm putting them in a place of power. I'm showing them with votability, which is an illusion. And absolute votability is complete strength. You understand? But I'm like, I think I got it all. I swear I'm missing something. Help me out here. What am I missing? All of a sudden, we're automatically working on a problem together.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

And all of a sudden, I've changed the power struggle here. I'm putting them in a place of power. I'm showing them with votability, which is an illusion. And absolute votability is complete strength. You understand? But I'm like, I think I got it all. I swear I'm missing something. Help me out here. What am I missing? All of a sudden, we're automatically working on a problem together.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

Because I want him to see me, or he or she, to see me as an ally. Because I'm like, I know I'm missing something. So that is one of those doing it in a way that feels exceptionally authentic, but is very much a tactic. But it has to come from a source.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

Because I want him to see me, or he or she, to see me as an ally. Because I'm like, I know I'm missing something. So that is one of those doing it in a way that feels exceptionally authentic, but is very much a tactic. But it has to come from a source.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

Because I want him to see me, or he or she, to see me as an ally. Because I'm like, I know I'm missing something. So that is one of those doing it in a way that feels exceptionally authentic, but is very much a tactic. But it has to come from a source.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

Because even when I go to a restaurant, when I go to a really nice hotel, I know the maitre d' or the waitress or whomever it is doesn't care about me very much. I'm just part of their day. I know the game. They know the game. But if I know at the end of their day they actually authentically care a little bit, I'm going to interact with them differently versus if they're just using the tactics.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

Because even when I go to a restaurant, when I go to a really nice hotel, I know the maitre d' or the waitress or whomever it is doesn't care about me very much. I'm just part of their day. I know the game. They know the game. But if I know at the end of their day they actually authentically care a little bit, I'm going to interact with them differently versus if they're just using the tactics.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

Because even when I go to a restaurant, when I go to a really nice hotel, I know the maitre d' or the waitress or whomever it is doesn't care about me very much. I'm just part of their day. I know the game. They know the game. But if I know at the end of their day they actually authentically care a little bit, I'm going to interact with them differently versus if they're just using the tactics.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

So this is where you were talking about understanding the psychology and having that compassion and that empathy is really important. There's a huge difference between empathy and apathy, which people go look it up. There's a huge difference. I'm going to steal a second and explain mine, which is not that... Yes, please, please. Mine is FO. Do you know what FO is? It's not an acronym.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

So this is where you were talking about understanding the psychology and having that compassion and that empathy is really important. There's a huge difference between empathy and apathy, which people go look it up. There's a huge difference. I'm going to steal a second and explain mine, which is not that... Yes, please, please. Mine is FO. Do you know what FO is? It's not an acronym.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

So this is where you were talking about understanding the psychology and having that compassion and that empathy is really important. There's a huge difference between empathy and apathy, which people go look it up. There's a huge difference. I'm going to steal a second and explain mine, which is not that... Yes, please, please. Mine is FO. Do you know what FO is? It's not an acronym.

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

This is based off psychology. I love this one. They took a lady and they, male, female, didn't matter. They gave, in this case it was a female, they gave her a board with questions. And they walked up to people and they said, hey, do you mind, can I ask you some questions? And she had a board. She said, okay, cool. She goes, well, can you hold this for me while I'm writing?

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

This is based off psychology. I love this one. They took a lady and they, male, female, didn't matter. They gave, in this case it was a female, they gave her a board with questions. And they walked up to people and they said, hey, do you mind, can I ask you some questions? And she had a board. She said, okay, cool. She goes, well, can you hold this for me while I'm writing?

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

This is based off psychology. I love this one. They took a lady and they, male, female, didn't matter. They gave, in this case it was a female, they gave her a board with questions. And they walked up to people and they said, hey, do you mind, can I ask you some questions? And she had a board. She said, okay, cool. She goes, well, can you hold this for me while I'm writing?

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

And they would hand a glass to the person. And it would either be a warm cup or a cold cup, either an ice drink or whatever. And they did this and then they were like, hey, they would leave and she'd answer the question. They'd walk away and then someone would say, hey, we just hired Susie, whatever it is. What was your perception of her?

Proven Podcast
Win Any Negotiation

And they would hand a glass to the person. And it would either be a warm cup or a cold cup, either an ice drink or whatever. And they did this and then they were like, hey, they would leave and she'd answer the question. They'd walk away and then someone would say, hey, we just hired Susie, whatever it is. What was your perception of her?