Christina A.
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What the fuck is he going to say?
I've had a partner who, like, was just like, I just don't really like it.
It doesn't really do that much for me.
Like, it's just not really for me.
This guy, if he's not really into it, that's fine.
But it's also, like, then how is... Like, what is... How... Where is he deriving his pleasure?
And, like, the playing field doesn't feel super even right now.
And it feels like he's making it that way.
And it kind of feels like him withholding sex is, like, maybe for a way to feel powerful.
If you just told her what was up or like, I'm just not feeling emotionally ready for that, then that's okay.
You're sleeping together four or five nights a week.