Claire Crowe
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And they'll say it at different times and they can catch you off guard.
And what she needs is mom to say, it's not you that's made me sad.
I'm sad because granddad died.
So that's the gorgeous story we do for our children.
And that's what helps them realize, oh, it's not me because kids are so egocentric.
They'll think it's all about me.
So what we're doing with our language of words is we're helping them realize this is something outside of you, but also, and I feel it and that's okay.
Is there a right answer to that question?
Yes, there is and there isn't in terms of I never have a definite.
I have three pointers that I give to parents.
The first is your age of your child.
If your child is, we kind of say seven is the age of reasoning.
So above seven, you know, they can really logically make sense of what's happening.
The second part, I think, is their personality style.