Dan Martell

Why would I take coaching?

Why would I be mentored by somebody whose life I do not want just because of a financial level of success they achieved when other areas of their life are not things that I aspire to?

It's a dangerous strategy and a lot of people fall into.

Those are nine, those are nine strategies from levels and devils and people will attack you and the byproduct of life and all these things, review this.

Confidence is your reputation, have it yourself.

I wanna give you a bonus one, is unhealed pain becomes company policy.

Now company policy could be your family company.

Like think about it, unhealed pain becomes company policy.

If you have unhealed pain,

You might be creating rules for your kids that make no sense.

If you have unhealed pain around how you learn to deal with the world, you might be creating policies in your business that are going to keep you stuck.

Or you're always asking people like, hey, work on this, but come see me.

Hey, work on this, but come see me.

Hey, before you make a decision, come see me.

Like there's all these weird permutations of the unhealed pain.

but it literally shows up in the way you talk with your team and the policies you enforce amongst your team.

If you ever get to spend time with me, you will notice one thing.

I am almost, from your lens, typically irresponsibly hands-off.

because you don't understand the work that went in behind the scenes, the conversations, the chats, the coaching, the support, the training, et cetera, where I can feel absolutely comfortable in letting go in a way where I don't expose myself to massive pain as well, because that's also unhealed pain.

Being a doormat is unhealed pain.