Dave Evans
speaker
2,777 appearances
6 recordings
4 series
first heard Dec 2024
last heard 6 Jul
Dave Evans’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You know, are you trying to be nice to somebody or trying to love them?
And sometimes that love, I don't mean tough love and you have to beat them up.
I wasn't trying to be unkind.
But if it's true that he's going to die of a stroke, which he did,
about four strokes later, then either he's going to do that and be blindsided by it and terrified at the moment of death and leave his family in some despair about his final days, or he's got a little more time to do this well.
So what's the kindest thing I can do?
The kindest thing I can do is give him a shot at the invitation to actually find the meaning and the joy that is available.
I'm not in charge of his fixing his brain, but I might be able to give him an invitation to a little more life-giving experience than he's currently having.
Well, we had that conversation and he received it reasonably well.
But I mean, it was it was really hard and it was pretty quiet.
And his wife, Kathy, was in the kitchen and over here, you know, and it was kind of give us some space.
And I didn't really know what was going on.
I bumped into his wife in the supermarket about three weeks later and she walks up to me.
She goes, what was it you said to Gary?
And I thought, oh, man, this is going to go badly.
And I said, well, this is what I said.
And she said, well, it made all the difference in the world.
He's a changed man.
He's finally at peace.
It was amazing.
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