David Kessler

I'm teaching people what our great-grandparents knew how to do.

And the thing is, today, if people can find a way to grieve fully, they will live fully.

And let me tell you the most bizarrest concept.

I spent so much of my life in hotel meeting rooms.

giving talks.

You know, there were days it was 10 people and 50 people and 300 people.

And after the talks, it happened more than once.

We're in a large meeting room, the hotel, there's the realtors are in the next room.

And after the day, the staff would say, what were you teaching?

And I would go, why?

And they would go, because your room was laughing the most.

And I would go, grief.

And they would go, what kind of grief?

I'd go, that kind of grief, like someone's dying or someone's already died.

And they couldn't understand it.

And here's why that happens.

Loss in our life pushes our bandwidth for pain, but it also pushes our bandwidth for happiness and joy and laughter.

People in my rooms learning about it

They probably did cry a little harder, but they also laughed harder.

Sure.