Deb Proctor

Those life events are what gives the background and the experience to what we would call intergenerational trauma or historical trauma.

When you're a very sensitive nature child, your little heart's open and you're intuitive. You pick up that energy.

When you're a very sensitive nature child, your little heart's open and you're intuitive. You pick up that energy.

When you're a very sensitive nature child, your little heart's open and you're intuitive. You pick up that energy.

The violence I experienced, I truly in my heart know that it's as a result of those that could not heal.

The violence I experienced, I truly in my heart know that it's as a result of those that could not heal.

The violence I experienced, I truly in my heart know that it's as a result of those that could not heal.

He taught me a lot about community service. He would be in his vehicle driving through the rural areas, seeing what the natives needed. And ultimately, he was a councilman for our tribe, served many, many years.

He taught me a lot about community service. He would be in his vehicle driving through the rural areas, seeing what the natives needed. And ultimately, he was a councilman for our tribe, served many, many years.

He taught me a lot about community service. He would be in his vehicle driving through the rural areas, seeing what the natives needed. And ultimately, he was a councilman for our tribe, served many, many years.

They had a birthday party for me, and he asked me to marry him, and I accepted. That was the day I turned 16.

They had a birthday party for me, and he asked me to marry him, and I accepted. That was the day I turned 16.

They had a birthday party for me, and he asked me to marry him, and I accepted. That was the day I turned 16.

He was the one in the family who said you must have an education. And so at age 17, I did start college and I finished at 19 with my first RN degree. That was as a result of my dad pushing me.

He was the one in the family who said you must have an education. And so at age 17, I did start college and I finished at 19 with my first RN degree. That was as a result of my dad pushing me.

He was the one in the family who said you must have an education. And so at age 17, I did start college and I finished at 19 with my first RN degree. That was as a result of my dad pushing me.

I mean, I'm running the hospital as a baby nurse. I'd probably turn... 20, maybe 21 by then. It was tough, but I spent a good part of my energy on trying to achieve perfection. Deb and her husband shared a very similar upbringing. He came from a violent background, very similar to mine. And so we just went together like peanut butter and jelly.

I mean, I'm running the hospital as a baby nurse. I'd probably turn... 20, maybe 21 by then. It was tough, but I spent a good part of my energy on trying to achieve perfection. Deb and her husband shared a very similar upbringing. He came from a violent background, very similar to mine. And so we just went together like peanut butter and jelly.

I mean, I'm running the hospital as a baby nurse. I'd probably turn... 20, maybe 21 by then. It was tough, but I spent a good part of my energy on trying to achieve perfection. Deb and her husband shared a very similar upbringing. He came from a violent background, very similar to mine. And so we just went together like peanut butter and jelly.

He struggled with drugs and drinking, and he had violent tendencies. It was really hard.