Deb Proctor
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90 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2025
last heard Jan 2025
Deb Proctor’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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They won't even have me on to, well, anything to do with VA. And I said, that's bullshit. You were a soldier. You were captured. And he said, I won't go. He got up, and he never talked about it again. In that moment, I was like, that is weird.
I wonder if I need to get a private investigator or something. And I logged on to the internet. And then I was like, God, I don't have any money to get a private detective job.
I had begun to say, I do not know what is wrong with my life. How am I going to get this guy health care? He's got to have health care.
I began to drink, and then I drank heavily, and then it was uncontrollably. Alcohol became an escape from her marriage and its problems. When I started drinking, I didn't have to be confused anymore because my brain was numb.
I was the person that was going to Al-Anon from the mid-80s, taking family, taking co-workers, taking friends to AANA, rehab. I was taking everybody to get help. But myself had, I guess, reached just a hard stop where I couldn't deal with it.
Best move I ever made. I'm not going to tell you it was pretty. It was ugly. But there's always been a driving force within me to rise above.
I began to really observe. He was strange. Something was not right, not right.
And I began to say to him, Jeff, every day while I'm at work, I want you to work on your life story because I don't understand it. You told me you were born in Alaska and you moved to Canada. But I don't know where you even went to school. I don't even know when you moved to Canada. If something happens, I'm going to be honest with you, I can't even write an obituary.
And so every day I would come home and I would go, well, share your story with me. Well, I couldn't work on it today. After his stroke, Jeff's memory was worse than ever. He began to claim that he just didn't have much of a memory. But the neurologist at the time of his stroke had already advised me that the stroke was not going to impact his memory.
Then he wanted me to get him checked for possible early dementia.
It's a wonderful program where you stay in your home. But they basically have a center that's open during the day. And there's activities and transportation. There's clinic on site. Everything that you could need. And if you need something outside, they'll take you. He started going to the center every day. That was until... The program called me and they said, have you talked to Jeff?
Because nobody can find him. He's gone.
Come to find out, he had left the group and the care team to go to the bank.
It was a number I didn't recognize, and I typically didn't pick those up in my office.
That's when he began to say that they were looking for Ron Stan, and they had believed that they were tracking down through social media.
There was a fire. in his barn at night and initially he was presumed to have been in that fire and he had left a wife an infant and another child deb's blood ran cold she knew what the officer was about to say before he said it the man she was married to who she knew as jeff walton was actually the complete fraud He was Ron Stan to this missing person.
So she asked the officer for proof, for details. The more I pushed for dates, times, names, locations, the more I realized, oh, ugh.
Every detail, dates, times, information, I still have that notepad.
I was sitting there when there was a nurse that looked at me from the office door and she said, are you okay? I remember saying, I don't know. I've just had the most bizarre phone call. So I went to talk to my director of nursing and she said, get out of here. What in the world?
He probably is in witness protection and you just blew it. So you're probably not safe, nor is he. And they said, we'll go with you to the Cherokee Nation marshals and we will get to the bottom of this.
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