Deb Proctor

He struggled with drugs and drinking, and he had violent tendencies. It was really hard.

He struggled with drugs and drinking, and he had violent tendencies. It was really hard.

And so for many years, I remained single and just spent time with myself and the boys. And so for the next few years after we divorced, I sought to understand. I bought books. I joined book clubs. Anything on self-understanding.

And so for many years, I remained single and just spent time with myself and the boys. And so for the next few years after we divorced, I sought to understand. I bought books. I joined book clubs. Anything on self-understanding.

And so for many years, I remained single and just spent time with myself and the boys. And so for the next few years after we divorced, I sought to understand. I bought books. I joined book clubs. Anything on self-understanding.

you know, someone to enjoy life, that I meant something to, that I mattered to.

you know, someone to enjoy life, that I meant something to, that I mattered to.

you know, someone to enjoy life, that I meant something to, that I mattered to.

His profile was just romantic. It was something like, I'm looking for my Guinevere.

His profile was just romantic. It was something like, I'm looking for my Guinevere.

His profile was just romantic. It was something like, I'm looking for my Guinevere.

You know, the music, a spiritual journey. He loved the Native American spiritual practices. And when I talked to him, I was just smitten with him. She looked forward to his phone calls and emails. I saved all of that. I printed everything. I had a huge three-inch purple binder with all of our exchanges.

You know, the music, a spiritual journey. He loved the Native American spiritual practices. And when I talked to him, I was just smitten with him. She looked forward to his phone calls and emails. I saved all of that. I printed everything. I had a huge three-inch purple binder with all of our exchanges.

You know, the music, a spiritual journey. He loved the Native American spiritual practices. And when I talked to him, I was just smitten with him. She looked forward to his phone calls and emails. I saved all of that. I printed everything. I had a huge three-inch purple binder with all of our exchanges.

He didn't know he's real dad. His stepdad was very violent and he would share stories like, you know, his stepdad murdered the family poodle in front of his sister and his mom and him. And I mean, it was horrible stories.

He didn't know he's real dad. His stepdad was very violent and he would share stories like, you know, his stepdad murdered the family poodle in front of his sister and his mom and him. And I mean, it was horrible stories.

He didn't know he's real dad. His stepdad was very violent and he would share stories like, you know, his stepdad murdered the family poodle in front of his sister and his mom and him. And I mean, it was horrible stories.

So when he would talk to me on the phone, he would have that accent. you know, dialect. He would say, hello, darling. Yeah, I can't do it, but it was definitely New Orleans.

So when he would talk to me on the phone, he would have that accent. you know, dialect. He would say, hello, darling. Yeah, I can't do it, but it was definitely New Orleans.

So when he would talk to me on the phone, he would have that accent. you know, dialect. He would say, hello, darling. Yeah, I can't do it, but it was definitely New Orleans.