Dee Selman

Middle of the day, bright sun, humping, tongue down throat, going at it.

I am definitely not a very physical, touchy person.

So if someone's like fast tracking that level of physical intimacy with me, like I'm probably going to freak out and get the ick.

Hi, I'm Dee Selman and I noticed something recently.

What did you notice?

Well, I was in Sydney on my book tour and I walked past a couple in a park on a bench, like making out, but like fully going at it.

Like, humping, like, full on.

And I was just like, oh, oh, in the middle of the day.

I was, like, running from one interview to another.

And I was so startled by it.

Like, I was so shocked that it made me realize, like, we actually, like, I don't see PDA anymore.

Like, we don't make out in public.

The fact that it's so, it was so shocking because it was something that I hadn't seen in so long.

Yeah.

Like, I tried to remember the last time I saw that and I couldn't.

groping but i'm like hello entertaining fun and love is love you know you're like i'm glad you're getting some exactly well this was why peep and i wanted to do a whole episode on pda because we realized it's a lost art but we also wanted to figure out how you felt about it like i think you either love it or you hate it like people are either all for it but when people hate it like they fucking hate it yeah you know what i mean people get the ick

And we wanted, Pip and I wanted to explore, like, if you're a couple or people, group of people doing some PDA, is that performative?

Like, is that for show?

Like, what are you trying to prove?

Or is it a sign of a healthy and secure relationship?