Diana Sabreen

I think they're similar.

I think wish wishes imply, which is to me a little bit imply lack of control, right?

Like, Oh, I wish I could do that.

Whereas once you take something and you kind of acknowledge that it's your dream, it gives you a little bit more personal power to take it and do something about it.

So, you know, when I asked that question, Stan,

the third or fourth question there, and I asked this series of questions that I gave you, this is the series of questions that I start with working with people, either one-on-one or in workshops or in groups, is what is your big dream and then what's holding you back?

And when I ask what's holding you back or what your biggest challenge is, rarely do I mean what are the external factors in your life that make you think you can't do this, right?

I'm not talking about your financial status.

I'm not talking about your privilege or lack of, I'm talking about what is within you.

What is your belief system that within you is holding yourself back, right?

How are you getting in your own way?

So to me, I feel like the, a wish can be a seed of a dream.

But a wish makes it,

kind of sound like it's unattainable and takes the personal responsibility off of creating it.

Yeah, well, the health stuff is hard because that seems to actually be a place where we have, to some extent, a lack of control.

And there are things we can do about it, right?

There's physical remedies.

There are spiritual, mental remedies that we can work towards.

But that's where it gets a little bit tricky to just make something happen or not happen, even if we do the work.

And, you know, you're talking about like National Chill Out Day, right?