Diego 'Yung Pueblo' Perez

And we do that one time in the morning and then one time in the early afternoon. And honestly, that's been so helpful because then I know if I hear stress in her voice, it's not really about me because she already told me that she was feeling stress and vice versa.

You got to learn how to forgive. I think especially when you see someone, because this happens, right? You have a very difficult moment. You resolve it. The person genuinely apologizes and they start showing changed behavior where they changed the thing that was a problem before. But then your mind will keep... This is the problem with heavy emotions is that...

And it's not formal. It's not like, oh, let's sit down and check in. It's not like that. It's like, it's easy. It's just... You just say it without someone even asking you. And whenever she tells me, when there's a big shift in her mood, I'm like, amazing. Thank you for giving me the information I need to be successful.

when you're feeling anger, the mind wants to make it bigger. It wants to invite other people into the anger by either saying something mean to them or by telling them the reason that why you're angry so that they can be angry with you. But then other times, if there's no one around us, the mind will just go back and back and back in time to pull something out.

You got to learn how to forgive. I think especially when you see someone, because this happens, right? You have a very difficult moment. You resolve it. The person genuinely apologizes and they start showing changed behavior where they changed the thing that was a problem before. But then your mind will keep... This is the problem with heavy emotions is that

And it'll grab the last biggest argument, even though it's resolved, it just comes back. And I think You have to repeatedly learn how to let go, especially if the other person is like, I haven't done that in years. I'm not trying to live my life like that anymore, but it's quite challenging.

when you're feeling anger, the mind wants to make it bigger. It wants to invite other people into the anger by either saying something mean to them or by telling them the reason that why you're angry so that they can be angry with you. But then other times, if there's no one around us, the mind will just go back and back and back in time to pull something out.

We've been together for, it's hard because it changes every year, but we've been together for, we'll be 10 years married this summer. And I think that means we've been together for 17 years.

And it'll grab the last biggest argument, even though it's resolved, it just comes back. And I think You have to repeatedly learn how to let go, especially if the other person is like, I haven't done that in years. I'm not trying to live my life like that anymore, but it's quite challenging.

No, no. Missed it.

We've been together for, it's hard because it changes every year, but we've been together for, we'll be 10 years married this summer. And I think that means we've been together for 17 years.

It's challenging out there because I feel like a lot of people are playing coy. There's a few things happening that I see often where one is sometimes people are spoiled for choice. And this happens in a lot of major cities where it's just like you're dating like eight people, but you're not really giving any of them a really serious focus. And that makes it really challenging to see

No, no. Missed it.

You can like have a very superficial interaction with somebody and never realize how amazing they actually are. I think the other thing too that happens is that people look for incremental improvements in their partners. So you'll be dating someone for two, three months and then

It's challenging out there because I feel like a lot of people are playing coy. There's a few things happening that I see often where one is sometimes people are spoiled for choice. And this happens in a lot of major cities where it's just like you're dating like eight people, but you're not really giving any of them a really serious focus. And that makes it really challenging to see

You end up dropping them because you're looking for someone who's 2% more attractive or 2% more peaceful, just because you don't necessarily want to deal with an argument that comes up. You just kind of toss the relationship away. And I hear this all the time from friends.

You can like have a very superficial interaction with somebody and never realize how amazing they actually are. I think the other thing too that happens is that people look for incremental improvements in their partners. So you'll be dating someone for two, three months and then

But it's challenging because our society, the way all the apps are with, you know, either dating apps or just all apps in general, right? They're all set up to just make your life easier. Like we live in a DoorDash Uber society and we expect that from our personal growth and from our relationships for it to just be fixed and easy. It's just not going to be like that.

You end up dropping them because you're looking for someone who's 2% more attractive or 2% more peaceful, just because you don't necessarily want to deal with an argument that comes up. You just kind of toss the relationship away. And I hear this all the time from friends.

So we need to be really careful about wanting things to be slightly better. And then we end up dumping something great for the chance of something better that is just like an illusion in our minds.

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