Dr. Alok Kanojia (Dr. K)

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1,658 appearances 5 recordings 3 series first heard Sep 2025 last heard 27 May

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They would be so devastated.
They would be so crushed.
All Alok wants is to be in love with someone who looks like this and also plays Dota 2 and like they would just be absolutely devastated.
So if we look at defense mechanisms, these are things like narcissistic defense mechanism where I'm suppressing information about literally the mistakes I am making all the time that screw up my relationships and make my work relationships more difficult.
I'm suppressing that because I can't handle it.
So we have narcissistic defense mechanisms, we have things like intellectualization, but we know that there are actually very real ways where we take emotions and information and suppress them in our brain, okay?
And the problem is when we suppress this information, it still comes out in other ways.
So a really good example is like people who are passive aggressive, right?
So people who are passive aggressive are that way because oftentimes they suppress their aggressive tendencies.
So instead of actually like...
fixing like addressing the problem and fixing it hey i'm pissed at you because you forgot my birthday instead of like allowing myself to be pissed and i let i bury that aggression and then i'm fucking passive aggressive with you and it creates toxicity in our relationship because when when you ask me oh look what's wrong are you upset with me i'm like no everything is fine i'm
whatever, right?
So like, it's so fucking toxic.
Even when we suppress emotions and we have a bunch of access to like good information, our brain still like knows this and it tries to deal with these emotions and even serve you up important information through dreams, okay?
So this is where I think the next step that we got to do is I got to just tell you about a couple of cases of patients that I've had, the dreams that I, that they had and how we sort of like learn things from them.
Then we'll explain how it works.
Okay.
So I had a patient who was married to the CEO and founder of a very large company.
And so she had this dream.
So she's like, you know, I have like this recurring dream and I'm like, okay, like, tell me about it.
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