Dr Amir Levine

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300 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 24 Jul

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All In The Mind · How can I become more securely attached? · 24 Jul 2026 podcast

And then they get into this idea, wow, this is the beginning of the end.

I've seen this before.

Whenever people get very close, then they pull away.

Like it really goes into this familiar script.

And then they start getting upset and then they wait for the person to text.

And when they text them, they either are very cold or they attack you.

So that's...

What happens oftentimes to people with anxious attachment style, they get into this protest regret cycle.

They attack you and the other guy's like, what do you want from me?

We spent all this time.

You want more?

You never get enough.

You're so needy.

Not understanding the basic logic of that baseline.

And so if you're anxious, you lash out and then there's a distance that happens, but then you miss the person and then you regret it.

And then you reach out and apologize.

But oftentimes, now the focus is on how you lashed out and you didn't really behave very well, which oftentimes you didn't.

But there was a reason for it.

You apologize, but the initial reason didn't get upset because you're both clueless about this attachment logic.

There's a very, very simple logic.

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