Dr Amir Levine
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And if you know it, you can circumvent a lot of these cycles of unhappiness in relationships.
A secure life.
Yes.
So people with anxious attachment style...
Their holy grail is to create a secure village.
And what do I mean by secure village?
To really find ways to surround themselves by people who are carp,
These are the five pillars of a secure life.
And oftentimes what happens for people who are anxious is that they actually give most of their attention to people who are not secure, to people who are not CARP, because they feel like, I need to fix this.
What's happening?
Why are you not texting me?
Why are you not talking to me?
While at the same time, what you often find in secure priming therapy, when I have clients come in, is that they do have other people in their lives that are actually very responsive, that are very carp, but they don't pay much attention to them because they're always there for them.
They always text them when they text you.
They're like, oh, they seem boring.
You're so occupied in trying to fix something.
And part of secure priming therapy is really something very simple.
You tell people, no, you have to shift your attention from here, trying to fix, fix, fix to here.
Text the person that always responds to you.
And over time to reprioritize your social habitat and bring to the fore that, you know, like group boarding when you're trying to board a flight.
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