Dr. Amir Levine

But then if you're like from a secure environment, you know, you know, like she doesn't really like to sit across from me and it feels too intense.

Maybe we can go maybe and that's actually been shown that maybe we can go on a hike together.

Who says a date has to be in a restaurant in a noisy environment?

Maybe that's how they can feel closer.

And it's like, oh yeah, I'd love to go on a walk even more often.

So that's the difference.

It's usually like, no, I need to have this.

where the solution comes from trying to work with both of your biology to find what actually is the most effective rather than this is what I need and I need you to sort of come to this restaurant and sit across from me and talk to me.

Okay.

Yes, of course.

And you can also shift to being not secure, but secures are amazing.

It's like in helping people shift their, even in little things, even if you're, they even will help you become more secure.

I'll give you an example.

It just happened, something that happened a few weeks ago.

We were going across the street

And then the woman who was driving, instead of stopping, she sped up.

And I turned to her like, you see what she did?

She's like, I mean, she's so impolite.

She didn't stop.

And my partner said, well, actually, I was thinking about it.