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Dr. Amir Levine

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374 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Like, she sped up so we can cross the street faster.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

So all of a sudden he gave me like a different sort of way of looking at it.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Yes.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

And, you know, since then, and he actually said something, oh, wow, you really shifted your way.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

I decided, okay, you know, I'm going to adopt this.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

And then whenever, like, I don't drive much, but whenever I see people do something like butting in or in traffic, I say, well, they made a mistake.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Or they just like, yeah, they didn't really see what's coming.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

And sort of like, actually, I found that I give them more the benefit of the doubt.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

And he said, oh, wow, that's been a real shift.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

So I really try, whatever I write there, I also use myself to help myself.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Because it's really more about...

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Again, it's about the exploratory drive.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Why would I spend my energy getting upset about someone else if I can see it in a little bit different way?

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Yes.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

And it frees up more energy for me to think, to write, to do all the things that I want to do.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

Yes.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

And sort of create those better scenes.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

So I had a very – it's like I feel – again, it was like –

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

I feel very fortunate that I had a very unusual upbringing in the sense that my mom had very progressive ideas about education.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Man Behind Attachment Styles Explains Secure Love

And so I basically, she also grew up in that same kind of like educational, the school that she went to, they never actually believed in grades.