Dr. Ciara Kelly

Yeah.

You're actually, things you're saying are reminding me, but they're so long ago now that I barely think of them.

But yeah, friendships can go very peculiarly.

And I sometimes think within friendships, there can be rocky patches in the same room.

Any relationships with your family or your lover or whoever, they can be rocky patches.

And one person gives up and one person doesn't maybe.

It's that one person does a rocky patch, wants to maybe have it out or have a row and move on.

And the other person just goes, no, I'm taking my ball and I'm going home.

Yeah.

And you're like, but what?

Do you know what I mean?

And I think that's very challenging.

People are deeply hurt when this happens.

Is there any resolution possible?

No?

I wouldn't want that now.

I think most things that happen between two people are less about the other person and mostly about the self.

So I think whatever happened, say, in your friendship situation, which I know nothing about, as you know, I don't know anything about it.

Your reaction, I totally understand.

I also know you, so I totally get it.