Dr. Ciara Kelly
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Podcast Appearances
terrible about that.
I agree with you that it's a boundary.
It's a respect.
It's a boundary, but it's a boundary I want for myself as well.
I don't want to be the phone checker either.
I don't want my phone checked, but I don't want to check someone else's phone.
I can't control what anyone I'm in a relationship does.
If they are, if my relationship is solid, I'm kind of presuming they're not doing anything.
If it's not solid, I'm not checking their phone.
I'm just going to either deal with that or get out.
Do you know what I mean?
I'm trying to think.
Yes, I do think.
Oh, it's gone altogether.
Now, there are times, and we've seen them in movies, we've, you know, thinking of the Lily Allen song.
Now I regret it.
But I'm sure there are people who say, who have suspicions their partner is being unfaithful and they're saying to them, are you?
And they're being gaslit, to use the modern terminology.
No, no, don't be ridiculous.
You're nuts and all that.