Dr. Ciara Kelly

But they don't really think that they're nuts.

And eventually, because they've asked and they've been lied to or whatever, they go, I'm going to check the phone.

And then it all comes tumbling out.

I would imagine that that is a scenario that has happened for people who feel maybe pressurized to check the phone because what someone's actions and words aren't matching up.

Do you know what I mean?

And I can see sort of that as a check the phone.

Okay, I was right.

It's over or whatever.

I kind of do get that, but

I'm still checking the phone as a line.

We also have to live in a real world.

People talk to each other privately differently to how they talk to each other publicly.

And they get caught out in that all the time because when we sometimes see private conversations exposed, we act like, oh, my God, I can't believe it.

But everyone does that.

You and I talk differently.

off this pod.

And God knows we're unfiltered on the pod.

But you know what I mean?

How we talk when we're being recorded is different to how you talk.

I don't mean we're talking in an inappropriate way, but everyone talks a little bit differently.