Dr. Ciara Kelly
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It's a thing.
In the same way relationships break up, friendships break up.
I think it's important to remember that it probably isn't all about you.
We make everything always all about ourselves, but it probably isn't.
It's probably something to do with where their head is at.
I think it does take a certain callousness to do it or maybe a certain troubled
so that something's going on for them.
But I think it might be protective in their head.
It might be.
They might be pushing other people away, too.
It may be to do with jealousy.
It may be to do with that.
They they think that they're a cut above buttermilk or whatever it is, but it's probably about them more than about you.
And I think it is probably true.
And this is the hard one.
That's maybe you liked the friendship more than they did.
Or maybe they're just not that fucking deep.
Maybe they're not that.
Maybe you're deeper than Joe Bloggs.
Or whatever.