Dr. Harville Hendrix

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A Bit of Optimism · Why We Fall for the Wrong Person with Couples Therapist Dr. Harville Hendrix · 7 Jul 2026 podcast

So I have to get the need met with this person.

Now meeting the needs of the mother who didn't meet your needs.

Yes.

That's the way nature sets it up.

So that puts the power strong.

I didn't create nature.

I know.

The struggle is over.

What we have to add here is the whole concept of the unconscious.

You are not in charge of the selecting process.

You're just in charge.

I did swipe right.

I was in charge of swiping right.

But what you have to bring into this and this is once you get this, this is easy to understand that your unconscious mind outside of your awareness is going to pick the person that you're going to fall for.

Because your unconscious mind has inside an image.

I call it an imago.

It's the core word in my intellectual system.

An imago, an image of this caretaker.

Right.

And when somebody crosses your path that matches that picture, your brain is going to go, wow, look at that.

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