Dr. Joshua Coleman
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first heard May 2026
last heard 9 Jul
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Good Life Project · Healing Family Estrangement: What To Say, And What Never to Say. · 9 Jul 2026
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You're not respecting my ideals of what to me constitutes a good, loving relationship.
You're not taking responsibility for the past.
So I have no interest.
So a lot of my work with parents is really helping them to understand how the adult child came to see the parent in the way that they did and why they believe that being estranged from them is really the healthiest thing for them to do.
Yes.
Yeah, well, I mean, helping parents really just understand this enormous cultural shift is really helpful to parents because a lot of them don't understand that there's been this profound cultural shift.
And a lot of these parents who are estranged now actually were better parents than their own parents were.
They gave their children a life they wish that somebody had given them.
given them.
And when their adult child comes to them and says, oh, you were emotionally abusive, or you're an emotionally immature parent, or you neglected me, the parents often feel like, what the hell are you even talking about?
I would have killed for your childhood.
You consider that neglect?
I wish I had had that kind of a neglectful childhood.
But it's really a matter of helping educate parents just that their children are being raised in a time where
which is a very different era.
And that alone is helpful to parents.
But I also will cite the study done by the Australian psychologist Nick Haslam that was done in 2016.
And one of the things that Haslam found
was that in the past three decades, at least the three decades leading up to the study, there has been an enormous expansion or an enormous lowering of the threshold of what gets labeled as traumatic, abusive, neglectful, harmful behavior.
So younger generations have been reared in that direction.
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