Dr. K
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yeah.
Right.
And then you're with all these, you're with your peers and suddenly used to be number one.
Now you're average.
And so you feel like you don't belong because you've never been out.
Everyone's jockeying to like one up and smarter than, and I know this better than you.
Absolutely.
Right.
So this is, identity is a tricky thing.
So first thing is negative identity is protective, right?
So if you have some part of your identity that you think is bad, that you want to get rid of, wrong approach.
Ask yourself, what is this identity doing for me?
When I think of myself as a loser, how does that protect me?
Absolutely.
And even a positive identity is not going to empower you to live into your fullest potential.
So we'll get to that.
Right.
So there are identities that we have that protect us from some negative things.
And then we have positive identities, too.
So going back to the negative identity, this will shape the way that we perceive the world.