Dr Lauren Rose-Warn
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290 appearances
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first heard May 2019
last heard Apr 2020
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And I think another aspect to it as well is, I don't know about you, but for lots of people now, pornography has become inextricably bound to our masturbation.
And I think there's lots of cultural discomfort around pornography and feelings like, you know, am I relying too much on external stimuli to get aroused?
Or am I looking at material that may not suit my politics?
And that can also affect people's
You know, they still orgasm but they don't necessarily feel good about that orgasm because they've got some sort of complicated politics around the material that they use to aid their wankery.
Yeah.
Yeah, so once upon a time that would have been true.
There was, you know, when you had to go to the creepy porn store in the back of an alley, you know, in the side alley and wear the raincoat.
When that was the way, you know, girls and women tended not to go and frequent those type of stores.
They felt uncomfortable for any number of reasons.
Now with the rise of pornography, you're actually starting to see data that...
still slightly skewed towards men but starting to even out in terms of who's watching pornography and masturbating to it.
And it's starting to get a picture of a lot more women than we ever thought and certainly more than in any other time in history.
And part of that is because we're all carrying a porn machine around in our pockets on a smartphone.
There is also every relationship will define betrayal differently.
And, you know, for some people, any even masturbation outside of the couple is considered to be cheating.
You know, I wrote an article for Fairfax earlier this year, late last year, about this.
I'd had the fifth friend of mine come to me and talk to me about how they'd found porn on their partner's computer and felt...
betrayed and devastated
and this idea of for some relationships it does feel like a betrayal but these are also tends to be relationships where there was bad communication around sex and then there's also another element where the type of pornography their partner was looking at was something that conflicted with the woman's values and i think that's something that also needs to be spoken about about what is it about the porn that's that's ups that is so upsetting to you because often it's feelings like
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