Dr. Leanne Tenbrink

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489 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 20 Jul

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Yeah.

I think she's totally right, is that my commitment to someone else changing

really doesn't have anything to do with their commitment or ability to change.

And so someone's personality is, as we've been talking about, their consistent way of thinking, feeling, and behaving, not how you feel about it.

That's not part of the definition.

So like your reaction to their personality- Or wish.

Yeah, or wish.

Or dream.

It's not part of it.

It's not relevant.

But it hurts whenever you are like, I'm doing all of the things that I can possibly do to change you.

I think there are ways that we can approach interactions with people with dark personalities to make them a little smoother.

To, like, make...

It just makes it like less likely that this interaction is going to ruin my whole day.

It's not going to change their personality, but it's going to just like, OK, we can reduce the stress like a day to day interaction.

I think it's to slow down.

Because personality is a pattern.

We keep talking about this over and over again.

And it's a pattern that as a spouse or as a friend or a coworker, you don't have a whole lot of ability to change, right?

So...

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