Dr. Leslie K. John
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first heard May 2026
last heard 4 May
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And that really has solidified to me what I call the extroversion illusion, which is that
We tend to think, equate talkativeness with going deep and opening up.
They're really not at all the same thing.
So we love extroverts because they're gregarious.
They're talkative.
They have a really positive affect, right?
They're often in a good mood.
But when it comes to revealing the really deep stuff, think about the extroverts in your life.
They're probably no different than the introverts in terms of how much they reveal or don't, right?
So revealing is really a different thing than talking.
Yeah.
And I would say that the people that are the best revealers, the best sharers are the ones that are the most flexible.
They have the most disclosure flexibility.
So they have a wide range.
They go from extreme openness with their most trusted confidants to like extreme guardedness when the situation calls for, right?
So they're really nimble at moving between these extremes.
Yeah.
That's a great question.
I think that you need to look to yourself first and do a kind of audit of, I think a place where this shows up very saliently is in one's relationships, right?
Like your spouse, your relationship with your spouse.
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