Dr. Leslie K. John

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621 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 4 May

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They really, we think they're inert, we think they're neutral, but they really, really sneak up on us in occupying our psyche.

And one of the tricky things with secrets is that they represent kind of an unresolved loop in your mind.

Because if you have a secret, you kind of haven't really resolved it.

You're constantly monitoring, should I say, should I not?

And it's like you're kind of perpetually ruminating over this disclosure decision, essentially.

I'm not saying we should reveal all our secrets.

Some secrets are important to be kept.

I had that.

Yeah, I know.

It's so hard.

And it's so hard.

I think that you hit the nail on the head, though.

Like, how...

Being private, having boundaries is one thing.

And the difference there is that you've made a decision that this is my boundary.

With a secret, it's unresolved.

Like in that case of like, you really need to tell this person somehow because it's not good for either of you.

But how?

And that's, I think, a lot of the case with secrets is,

Most, all the time, it's not a question of whether to reveal, but it's a question of how, to whom, and when.

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