Dr. Nicholas Epley

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The Liz Moody Podcast · The One Habit That Will Instantly Make You More Likeable · 15 Jul 2026 podcast

That matters a little more than you guys.

Is to remember that the context of an interaction matters a lot.

An email is not talking to somebody.

You want to prioritize the context where reciprocity is possible, where I reach out to you and you can reach back to me in live conversations, say, or on the phone with somebody, or even asking people for help.

In ways where they can respond to you easily and quickly.

When you send an email to somebody, they're much less likely to help you than if you talk to them in person because there's a lot more responsiveness in that interaction.

So prioritize the context where we're actually able to respond to each other in real time.

Some of that.

And to recognize that your own choices are shaping your experience.

And if you're avoiding other people, right, because you're worried about how things are going to turn out, remember you're not getting data there.

You didn't just learn that a conversation is going to be bad because you chose not to have it.

Yeah.

Well, I worry about that too, right?

So when I'm out having conversations with people, I don't want to make anybody feel uncomfortable, right?

But notice that's also a fear that we have.

That's an expectation that we have that I think is actually likely to be miscalibrated.

If you are genuinely just trying to have a conversation with somebody, that will typically become clear in the conversation, right?

If you don't want something out of somebody else.

If you do want something out of somebody else, that will also become clear in the conversation.

So if you are going around and hitting on people all the time, they will figure that out because you'll behave differently towards them than if you're just trying to have a nice conversation with somebody.

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