Dr. Nicholas Epley

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1,223 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 15 Jul

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As soon as she looked like it was easy to compliment somebody on something, right?

Just when she was looking.

And so she has now taken it on kind of as a habit to go on compliment walks when she just wants to lift herself up a little bit.

So she'll go around the city of Philadelphia, passing along compliments to people often about, you know, what they're wearing.

She often gives compliments.

She says to women rather than men, she's a little worried about, you know, being misinterpreted.

So that's fine, right?

That's okay.

She's still giving out a lot more compliments than she would otherwise.

But I did ask her, even when she gives compliments to men, it tends to go really well too.

And she has nice conversations with people when she does that as well.

But she then also hands out cards, encouraging other people to pass that compliment along.

But she's learned that the way to have a good day is to go out and try to lift people up with some kind words.

And the psychological research certainly confirms that that is a good way to have a good day is to think about how to lift other people up.

You have a lot of power to affect other people, right?

You can ruin their day by making them enraged.

You can also lift them up for the entire day.

And once you know that, why would you ruin somebody's day when you could make their day?

My sense is that all of this is extremely context-dependent and probably doesn't matter very much.

There are big differences, and then there are littler differences.

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