Dr. Nicholas Epley

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1,223 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 15 Jul

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The Liz Moody Podcast · The One Habit That Will Instantly Make You More Likeable · 15 Jul 2026 podcast

When he goes to parties, he tries to find the person who's off by themselves and goes and engages with them.

Cause I mean, that's where he's got, you got a lot of bang for your buck there.

You're going to help engage that person, bring them into the conversation and you'll be connecting with someone meaningfully there.

And that's not a bad strategy, but yes, I mean, when it comes to social interaction, making a small, so you actually have the opportunity to connect with them.

That's good.

When you're at a party.

you kind of, the reason why that's not so rewarding is you kind of all have competing goals at the time, right?

You're all, you're flitting around trying to talk to different people.

No, but you're not all in this together.

If you go with six of your friends to a play or to dinner where you're all talking with each other, we're all having the same shared experience.

Our goals are aligned right now.

We're cooperating with each other in this.

That's going to be way more rewarding than

than when you're at a party with those six friends, but you're all flitting around talking to different people with conflicting goals.

Yeah, yeah.

Some of that is okay, right?

So I wouldn't judge yourself too harshly to the extent that you are throwing a party or something and you're trying to make everybody else happy.

feel better, right?

Enjoy their time here.

That can be really rewarding to do.

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