Dr. Orna Guralnik

I mean, I've actually gone...

On one of these like Reddits or something, one of those, I've gone on there to try to defend some of my participants just because it's just so ridiculous, this online world.

And people have this tendency, you probably know that way better than I do, but people have this tendency to just grab onto a villain, create a villain and kind of unleash a lot of their stuff online.

Meaning for what kind of life online it's going to take?

No, that's not, no.

No, that's not been a thing.

Right.

But I don't, I guess that my patients are not

I don't know.

I don't live in that world, and somehow my patients don't seem to be living in that world.

I mean, there are other things where the online world, like Israel-Palestine and all of that stuff, I mean, that's intense for a lot of people, but not stuff that's related to their love life.

Not from the first time.

No.

I mean, rarely.

I mean, sometimes there's like... I mean, there can be such a gap in what people want from a relationship that it looks...

you know, it doesn't look great, but usually it takes me quite some time to understand what a couple is dealing with and what, I mean, they come in with one, I mean, usually people come in and they say they have trouble communicating.

That's what everyone says, but you never know what that really means.

And it takes me quite a while to understand what the couple is really dealing with because they don't even know.

So I don't know early on.

I mean, sometimes when couples come in in a very toxic situation, like where they're really hating on each other, and if I can't get them to connect to a wish that