Dr. Robert Glover

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Habits and Hustle · Episode 483: Dr. Robert Glover: Why Nice Guys Finish Last (And What Women Really Want Instead) · 9 Sep 2025 podcast

You're not being truly you.

And people, you know, when they find out I've written a book called No More Mr. Nice Guy, they'll often say, but you seem like a nice person.

Yeah.

And, you know, I don't take that as an insult because...

I think I am, you know, pretty easygoing.

I'm pretty generous.

I'm smart.

I'm funny.

Yeah.

For me, it really is around that inauthenticity.

It's all inauthenticity.

And around the covert contracts.

And underneath that, the shame and the anxiety.

If I'm trying to manage my shame and anxiety in all situations, very unconsciously.

And as Jung said, until we make the unconscious conscious, it'll rule our life and we'll call it fate.

So if we're being driven by our anxiety, our fight, flight, freeze, we're in sympathetic nervous system, we're in states of shame, so we don't want to be seen or known or make a mistake or look foolish.

Here on the surface, what we show people is meant to manage all of this.

So this is not authentic.

This is not honest.

It doesn't have an integrity to it.

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